The Connected Family

The Connected Family

The magic of taking kids to the grocery store

Well, one of them at a time, anyway.

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Emily Thomas
Mar 28, 2024
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I’ll admit: there is one screen-related sight that’s like nails on a chalkboard to me. I know it’s not polite or charitable to admit to it, but here it is: when I see kids staring at a phone in the grocery store cart, it makes me want to scream.

I know! I’m sorry! I cringe just typing those words, and promise I’m not a particularly judge-y person1.  

Yes, I generally do try and keep my personal phone use to a minimum, and I don’t often hand over my phone to my own children. But, when out and about, I also generally keep my thoughts to myself and try to empathetically imagine why someone else might have chosen differently. Maybe she’s having a really hard day! Maybe his kid is neurodivergent! Maybe maybe maybe…!

But as opposed to, say, a sibling’s piano recital or a hushed courtroom, the grocery store has SO much to recommend it as a phone-free zone, and it pains me to see it not being fully recognized or utilized as the delightful, teachable opportunity it can be.

I think the grocery store is an ideal “adult space” to go phone-free, and here are my reasons:

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